Adoption, Husband, Infertility

Why is Adoption So Difficult?

The April 8th reading from Oswald Chambers’ My Utmost for His Highest says,

Our Lord’s Resurrection destiny is to bring “many sons unto glory.” The fulfilling of His destiny gives Him the right to make us sons and daughters of God. We are never in the relationship to God that the Son of God is in; but we are brought by the Son into the relation of sonship. 

As Kevin and I were reading that day’s devotional together, it brought to my mind an answer to question I had been pondering concerning adoption. Why is adoption so expensive, why does the process take so long, why is there so much pain involvedPerhaps adoption needs to be a long and painful process for us just as it was for our God. 
Romans 8:15 (and other New Testament passages) proclaims the adoptive relationship we have Yahweh.

The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.”

And how did we receive that Holy Spirit, friends? But through the sacrifice offered by our adoptive Father himself – giving his son to humanity, watching his torturous crucifixion, being forced to turn his back on Jesus because our sin was so black, and then sealing our adoption through the supernatural bodily resurrection and ascension of that same Christ. 
All for us. 
He wanted to invite us into his family, to be his sons and daughters, so desperately that he did more than wait a year or two, sign papers, deal with heartbreak and devastation, sign more papers, and finally bring that child home. No. God waited for thousands of years as his children rejected him, then gave him hope that they might possibly draw near to him, only be saddened again by their disobedient disdain. After centuries of waiting, he offered part of himself – his Son (the son who was already in perfect communion with him, who would never disappoint him or leave him, never disobey him) – as payment for our adoption. 
Ok, so I guess the thousands of dollars, the piles of papers, and the months of waiting really can’t compare.
Lord Jesus, if you call us to adopt, please keep this perspective fresh in our hearts. Amen. 
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2 thoughts on “Why is Adoption So Difficult?

  1. Awesome insight Mel. Fantastic word pictures to make it clear. May God bless you with a child in the way He sees is the best way. Love you, mom

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